i find minimal value in high-res content/equipment. it seems all the streaming/download services have their own masters and you'll find mastering differences in content vs CDs.
hurling a two-ton death machine down the road, i'd lean strongly at #1, especially if you can get a clean+flat signal from the factory radio.
screens on phones are larger than daps, so then #2 second. it's a pain to live with daily. you'll likely get a message on your iphone saying "accessory not supported," however it still works correctly. i did this for a couple years and eventually went to a carplay radio. a usb->spdif bridge like a topping d10/d10s works as well. i did this for a while as apple/af figured out the charging issues w/ the usb-hec.
#3 meh, i generally don't like the UI/UX on DAPs. plus you'll probably have a coax cable and power cable coming out of opposite ends of the dap.
#2 and #3 have to figure out a mount or whatever as well.
#2 and #3 will probably want something sane for volume control, like director, urc3, or conductor. have to figure out that as well.
you know what they say: if it's not difficult to use, it's not sq.
having a good source is important. nailing the install+deadening and tuning are much larger pieces of the sq puzzle.