I've got one for y'all at comps and g2g's. Try dodging the "what do you have" questions and let them hear the system first. Then after getting their feedback with an additional attempt to find out what you have behind those pretty grills ask them if it really matters what speakers they were listening to. This should be followed with a brief laugh and a full equipment list. The tune and install will make or break a system. It's easy to determine how a system sounds before ever hearing it. That's why I try my hardest to listen first, ask questions later if I don't already know what they have installed.